Friday, 5 October 2012

A Feeling of Love

Hello folks I am back with a new feeling. A feeling of love, The most desirable feeling in our life.
So what really love is. In dictionary it says

 “a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.” 

 As my profound nature I don’t agree on this feeling with its definition only.  Why should I agree with something written in dictionary? We all have different level of feeling to feel particular feeling...Am I right?  

Love as a feeling is not alone. Feeling of love is attached with different feeling all together. Happiness, sadness, depression , energetic, joy, ecstasy, anxiousness, excited, top of moon etc etc.

There are different types of love as we know….. Love with your partner, Love towards your parents, your siblings, your friends etc.  But most interesting feeling of love we love to talk is always with your partner. Towards whom you fall without any reasons ;)

So here we go in detail why do we fall for them, what are the changes comes, how our life take different track etc etc :P

Now why it happens  …lets go for psychology first…..

When you see some and you feel Goosebumps, that’s nothing but your mind making a cocktail of bio-chemicals in your body……It only takes 90 seconds to 4 minutes, to decide your fancy for someone. If you believe or not you fall in love with someone in first 5 minute of your meeting and then it’s all goes ……
So how we choose, it’s all happens as below

55% through their body language
38% through tone and speed of voice
7% through what they talk and how they talk….

Although something happened which force us to think that, this is the person for me, is still a mystery
: P for me though……

What is love at first sight?
Nothing but some chemical mix up ….When u see some1 3 Chemical do their work very precisely
First culprit chemical is …
Adrenaline:  At initial stage, the right person start stress response in your body, increase level of Adrenaline and cortisol and because of that you sweat, feeling of Goosebumps, increasing your heart rates and you mouth go dry. :P
You all might felt this ….am I right? So you understood the logic behind it J  

Second one is the bigger Culprit chemical and it called
Dopamine: Love -struck couple has been examined and found high level of neurotransmitter Dopamine in their brain. This chemical triggers an intense rush of pleasure which stimulates desire and rewards.  If you know then “it is the same effect as talking cocaine”!!!!!
Now biggest question that arise in your mind during the love…Why my energy level is increased , less need of sleep or food, can’t focus on anything…this all happened cause of Increasing level of Dopamine J
Last one is
Serotonin: Do you know why you feel your love around you all the time? This chemical makes that happened. This chemical when you are falling love, keeps popping he/she in your thoughts.

So these are the Physiological way of love, now what happened when you fall in love with someone.
One relation makes many changes in your life in addition to chemical changes…

You must have heard that “Your changed since your relation starts” Does it right, yes it is. Have you have focused on that? Here are some reasons why it is

Plenty of us never kept our parents or siblings picture with us, but the minute your proposal accepted you start to keep your partner’s picture in your wallet/purse or in your mobile, also as desktop wallpaper.
We go with our friends now and then but once you are in relation you don’t have time for them.
You spend so much time on calling and Face booking, chatting with them.
Lose concentration and many other changes. I don’t have to give list over here, you all have felt that and done that.
So some changes are positive and some are negative. You are not the person who can judge does it good or bad. It always shows you the marks in future and that time you can judge was it good or bad.
When you love someone, love with passion not just for name of doing. Love will give you the utmost pleasure that you have never felt before also if you don’t balance it with your routine life it can make the biggest destruction.
Never ever give your life in the hand of other person, you never know what will be the future and you might get hurt badly and that feeling is the worst feeling of anyone’s life.
If you find your soul mate, then please never ever forget  the people before he/she, who were there with you in every situation your parents.

Now go love your loved one and if you haven’t found anyone then go and find one and feel the most beautiful feeling of god’s creation. Keep Feeling :P

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