Thursday, 11 October 2012

Feeling of being confused

So are you going this way? No!!!..that must be that!!! then where you want to go? Are you not sure? 
Have you have felt that you’re standing at cross road and you can’t see any sign for process which way should you go? Will road leads to your destination? 

We call this feeling as “Confusion” where we can’t decide what we really wanna do…

As per definition it says

          “Unable to think clearly”

So confusion is what in real? I don’t know I am also confused :) 

For me I am confused when I have mixed feelings sometime it’s like should I feel happy for this or sad for this.

Why somebody get confused? Plenty of reason behind it…

You’re not focused; you’re not sure what you are looking, your expectations from life, jealousy and plenty of other things.

Let’s see why you feel the confusion in medication term…

There are loads of causes for this feeling list is as below.

Low Blood Sugar
Nutrition Deficiency
Lack of Sleep

List can go on and on…..But other many concern is not to go for physical things because we cause things from outside of our body so if we can sort it out from outside we can cure inside.

We always have mixture of feelings whenever we got confused so anything.
For example my favorite “LOVE”  
When someone proposed you what kind of confusion will you have?
Why should I say yes? Does She/he is good enough for me? Should I be compatible with her/him? What she/he really wanted from me? There are plenty of others why she/he wanted me? And many vaguer scenarios you create in your mind.

Why? Why? Why we asking this question? Simple do like her/him then say yes else no..Simple as that…spend some time and then judge…

Should I Buy this car? It looks good but bumper has not much aerodynamic view, but color looks nice, nice configuration but features are not up to what other cars offers..

See this type of question we ask ourselves and make our self confused. I said you like his car then does it in your budget? If no then……….why you discussion this much. If yes then ok check configuration, features etc etc but check your budget and then compare with other cars or same segment and same price. Stop making yourself confused.

So we can say that we are creating worst combination of feelings… Happy, Sad, depressed, underestimated, overestimated, vague etc etc

All this questions create different feelings and these different feelings make as confused.

Now I can give some suggestion how to make decision but all up to my knowledge and what I do when I am confused….

Next time when you get confused take a pen and paper.. Make 2 columns. Choose 1st part as Positive side and other is as negative side.  

Now start writing positive and negative side of the thing what are confused about.
Now give point from 1 to 10 to each. Add all the points in positive now add all the points in negative. Whichever side comes with higher number is your answer to your confusion.

Actually in major cases we got confuse because we are afraid of losing something. But think one thing that, when you were born you never bring anything with you and you will not take it anything with you when you die.

What if you make wrong decision? Nothing, it is great that you have taken that decision and got something, rather than not getting anything.

Something is always better than nothing so if you’re confused then go for the procedure your think good for taking decision or the best way I can show you J is aim for nothing.

If you’re shooting something you’re aim is at that thing, you know what you are shooting and you will have it if you shoot that. But in confused feeling you don’t know what you are shooting at, but I say aim at nothing is better than not shooting at all.

When you are aim at nothing it’s confirmed that you’re gonna shoot something. So you will get something at least and then think the thing you have shot is good for you or not to keep further.

So confusion is what we make ourselves by creative a whole new definition of decision making.

So don’t be afraid, choose what you really want, go for it and then if you think it’s not good enough leave it but give it a chance.

So this is it….don’t want to make you more confused J Keep reading and Keep feeling…..  :) 

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